Got an interesting question from a member via email:

I find that  my biggest problem with online poker is tilt. I think I am a decent player. I am after reading alot of e-books and articles over the past 3-4 years. I play live but mostly online. I use to win $300-$400 a week mostly playing sit & gos and tourneys, it seemed I never went broke, but when i started playing cash games I saw my profits disappear. Not in live cash games but online. I would say I am in the red about $26000 in the past 6-8 months. I win at the $0.50-$1.0 nl games then move up to higher stakes and lose everything usually on a bad beat. I am after reading over and over again your bankroll management and tilt information but still fall into the same traps. I know I can win because I done it consistently in the past.  Now I will not lie to you, I do drink when I play at times which can affect my game. I love the game and I am not ready to give up but I need a big re-awakening. My big question for you is how do you let the bad beats roll off so easily? Any advise?

Here are my thoughts:

It’s clear that you need some discipline in your game.  You need to realize that you are simply gambling if you move up to stakes higher than $0.50/1 and that you are probably a losing player at those stakes.  Play at stakes you are comfortable with and are skilled for.  If you seek the gambling thrill, then go play blackjack or something because you’ll probably lose less money (although you will still lose).  To win consistently at poker you must be very disciplined and play at games that you are skilled for and bankrolled for.

Another step  you really need to improve on is emotional control.  You need to really tone down your tilt problem.  You need to realize that bad beats happen and that it’s all part of the probability of the game.  AA cannot win every hand.  And yes, you will hit bad streaks where you constantly get it in with the best hand and lose.  But that is also guaranteed to happen from a probability perspective every so often.  Once you realize this and accept that continued bad beats are part of the game then you will be able to handle them better.  Bad beats are what keep the fish in the game and enable winning players to make their money.  If they didn’t exist then the games would dry up immediately.  Focus on what you can control – your emotions and your decisions at hand.  Don’t worry about what cards fall after you’ve made your decision.  If you used all the information at hand to the best of your ability and are making winning plays, then in the long run you’ll be a winning player (though obviously in the short run it can swing either way, sometimes substantially).

When you find yourself starting to tilt you should leave the tables immediately.  Do not chase losses – you will only let your emotions get to you and force you into making bad plays that add up to more losses.  Take a break and come back the next night if you start getting emotional.  Don’t get frustrated – it is very tough to overcome emotions, sometimes I still tilt myself.  But when you realize it’s happening, the worst thing you can do is keep playing.  Come back another day with a fresh mind and attitude.

And lastly I know you don’t want to hear it but it’s probably not the best idea to drink while you play.  If you’re looking to just have fun then by all means do it, but realize that it’s costing you money in the long run, as it messes with your poker judgments and emotional stability (which is hugely important) while playing.  Save the beers for after you record a solid winning session.

I hope this helps!

Cheers,
Tim

I received an interesting hand via email from one of our members that I want to discuss here:

Hi Tim,
Do you think I should have called the river(he pushed quickly) or bet the flop?  I didn’t have much info on the guy.  It was only his 10th hand, and I wasnt paying attention to how he was playing…  he limped under-the-gun and called my raise, I was thinking maybe he got two pairs.  Did I have value to call river?  Thanks

Seat 2 is the button
Total number of players : 6
Seat 3: Villain1 ( $50.25 USD )
Seat 5: Villain2 ( $50 USD )
Seat 4: Villain3 ( $49.75 USD )
Seat 1: Villain4 ( $49.77 USD )
Seat 6: Villain5 ( $30.70 USD )
Seat 2: HERO ( $53.25 USD )
Villain1 posts small blind [$0.25 USD].
Villain2 posts big blind [$0.50 USD].
Villain4 posts big blind + dead [$0.75].
** Dealing down cards **
Dealt to HERO [  Kh Qd ]
Villain5 calls [$0.50 USD]
Villain4 raises [$0.50 USD]
HERO raises [$4 USD]
Villain1 folds
Villain2 folds
Villain5 calls [$3.50 USD]
Villain4 folds
** Dealing Flop ** [ 8c, 3d, 7s ]
Villain5 checks
HERO bets [$6 USD]
Villain5 calls [$6 USD]
** Dealing Turn ** [ 6h ]
Villain5 checks
HERO checks
** Dealing River ** [ Kc ]
Villain5 is all-In  [$20.70 USD]
Your time bank will be activated in 6 secs. If you do not want it to be used, please act now.
HERO will be using his time bank for this hand.
HERO folds
Villain5 does not show cards.
Villain5 wins $41.60 USD

Here are my thoughts:

It’s close, but I think a fold is best if you don’t have a read.  It really depends on the player though – sometimes this would be a snap call.  But think about what hands he’s limping UTG with – lots of low/medium pocket pairs and suited-connectors.  They absolutely crush this board – 88, 77, 66, 87, 76, 86, 45, T9 all have you beat.  I’d guess he was slowplaying a monster, or perhaps called the flop with a hand like T9 and hit on the river.  Note there was no flush draw so that reduces his potential missed draws.

Well played.

Hi folks,

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Here’s an interesting hand from today, when creative thinking can really net you some extra value from your opponents.

No-Limit Hold’em, $6.00 BB (6 handed) – Hold’em Manager Converter Tool from FlopTurnRiver.com

UTG ($685.10)
Button ($413.40)
MP ($702.50)
SB ($114)
BB ($1140.20)
Hero (CO) ($725)

Preflop: Hero is CO with 10, 10
2 folds, Hero bets $18, Button calls $18, 1 fold, BB raises $76, Hero raises $142, 1 fold, BB calls $78

Flop: ($341) 4, K, 7 (2 players)
BB checks, Hero checks

Turn: ($341) 7 (2 players)
BB checks, Hero bets $165, BB calls $165

River: ($671) K (2 players)
BB checks, Hero bets $400 (All-In), 1 fold

Total pot: $671

Results:
Hero had 10, 10 (two pair, Kings and tens).
Outcome: Hero won $1068

From the outset it doesn’t look too interesting, but a lot of thought actually went into this hand.  I make a standard raise pre-flop with pocket tens and get called by a weaker player (who I know has a wide range).  Good thinking player in the BB then squeezes to $82, since he knows that I’m opening a wide range of hands in the cut-off, and the weaker player is calling with a wide range of hands – so neither of us can likely continue on.  I realize he knows this, so I decide to put in a re-raise, with plans to call it off if he pushes.  I’d likely be a slight dog, to his pushing range of AA-JJ, AKo, AKs, and possibly AQo/s, but I’d have proper odds to call since I’d already have committed $160 into the pot.

My opponent decides to smooth call my 4-bet out-of-position which is very odd.  When the flop comes down very dry, I try to think what hands he would simply smooth call my 4bet with.  I figure that AA-JJ and AK would have just pushed pre-flop, so that leaves possibly AQ, KQ, and smaller pocket pairs.  Since my range can still consist of premium hands, I know that he’s afraid of what I’m holding.  I check behind on the flop since I have some showdown value, and I don’t think I’ll induce a bluff check-raise by betting.  When the turn bricks off (since 7x is in neither of our range) and my opponent checks again, I become pretty confident that I have the best hand.  He likely has either A-high or a middle pocket pair.  So I bet slightly over half pot to try to induce a check-raise from my opponent (which I would snap call).  When he simply calls the turn, I’m liking where I stand.  When the river pairs the King, I’m liking the card since it will either induce him to push as a desperation measure since his pocket pair just got counter-feited, or he will possibly call a push from me with Ace-high, since all Aces will chop the pot.  When he checks to me, I push, hoping for a call with A-high, or possibly pocket 9s.  He folded however, but I was still able to get what I think is max-value from the hand (I guessing he probably had a low pocket-pair, or possibly AQ).

Anyway, I figured this might be an interesting hand to really explain an in-depth thought process.  Feel free to provide feedback in our forums at http://www.outstandingpoker.com/forum.

Good luck with your games!

Cheers,
Tim